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I found porn on my husband’s computer, what does this mean?

If you have found internet porn on your husband’s computer, then you may wish to check your computer history to see which websites have been visited and when. Some people spontaneously scan internet porn sites to take a glimpse of these images. This visitation to such websites will show up on the computer’s history. If you use google as a main opening page for the web, then just click the favourites tab and then history to see which websites have been viewed. Such a history trail can be erased or deleted so this is an important point to consider if no history shows up under the tab. Someone may have already deleted the history trail for some reason? You can also install computer software like “Covenant Eyes” which will print out the website history and alert you to internet porn web sites that have been visited. Such software is particularly important especially if your husband is addicted to pornography and your husband keeps looking at porn.

Some husbands may even save files or folders of internet porn. Such individuals have tabbed them or placed these links into folders to preview later. These folders constitute a collection or library of pornography images and this is an indication of a major problem because this means that these images are being viewed regularly or that your husband has put some thought as well as energy in previewing as well as organizing these images. You could be a spouse of someone with a pornography addiction and may benefit from accessing help available for Christian spouses of sex addicts.

If your husband reviews internet porn images in his “library” or collection then he is starting a process of sexualizing on to his favourite sexual sin images. Sexual energy that is meant for the sanctity of the Christian marriage is now corrupted for purposes of sexual sin. In order to enhance arousal, your husband may have to fill his mind with internet porn images from a sexual pornographic library. The library or collection of porn can easily become an accessible “escape world” whereby your husband alleviates stress by masturbation as well as receives instant sexual gratification by fantasizing about these internet porn pictures. Rather than dealing with feelings, communicating in marriages, or resolving problems Christian men can access their “ready-made escape world of sexual sin” through internet porn.

Resource: Real Life Tool Box's E-Learning Course-

The Road To Healing From Pornography available at http://reallifetoolboxfaithbased.litmos.com/online-courses/