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Marriage Transformation In 3 Days.

Join Us For The Next Couple’s Workshop:

April 11-13, 2025

May 16-18, 2025

June 13-15, 2025

If the date is listed then there is space available for you.

 

Weekend Details

 

Dates:

March 14-16, 2025 SOLD OUT

April 11-13, 2025

May 16-18, 2025

June 13-15, 2025

(If date is listed there’s space for you.)

Location:

Stoney Creek Hotel

200 W Albany St, Broken Arrow, OK 74012

Schedule:

Arrive Thursday Afternoon

Friday 9AM-4PM CST

Saturday 9AM-4PM CST

Sunday 8AM-12PM CST

Fly into Tulsa International Airport

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What The Workshop Is Like

Save Your Marriage Plan

A workshop for reluctant and committed couples. It’s okay to not be sure you want to stay in the marriage.

Attend the Workshop Together. Options include in person, virtual, and pre-recorded.

Trust. Joy. Passion. Romance. Forgiveness. Respect. Admiration from others and yourself is waiting.

The Agenda

  • The Problem with Progress

  • What is PTSD

  • Bullseye - Creating Valuable/Trust

  • Attachment Theory Flow Chart

  • Attachment Science

  • Healing Broken Trust Triangle

  • 7 Stages of Affair Recovery

  • Affair Repair Healing Milestones

  • 9 Basic Moves to Do Everyday for Affair Repair

  • Limerence

  • 13 Reasons Leaving For the Affair Partner Won’t Work

  • Ground Rules for Talking About the Affair

  • Positive Cycles

  • Managing Conflict

  • 4 Relationship Roles in Negative Cycles

  • Tracking Our Negative Cycle

  • Grief & Healing Grief Ritual

  • Shame

  • Why People Stray

  • 14 Things the Unfaithful Have in Common

  • Childhood Emotional Maltreatment & Infidelity

  • 3 Drivers of Affairs

  • Questionnaire to Discover Why

  • Boundaries

  • How to Heal the Deep Wound of Betrayal

  • Bonding Events

  • Longterm Roadmap to a Better Marriage 

  • Bonus Session to Manage Triggers

 Small Groups for Accountability & Healing

Hiding and secrecy is what keeps an affair alive. Small intimate groups teach us how to be really known by others.

Our participants find lasting friendships and deepen the bond with their spouse as a result.

  • Meeting other people helps you feel normal

  • Break out of the lonely feeling of betrayal

  • Find hope in healing

  • Receive encouragement

 What Else Is Included?

The Healing Broken Trust Couples Master Class is a unique stand alone 6-module course.

It helps you heal and rebuild trust together as a couple.

It’s valued at $997 but you receive it as a part of the workshop at no extra cost.

You receive this program immediately upon enrolling.

 

202 page Couple’s Workshop Workbook guides you through healing broken trust together. It is the course material Brad walks you through at our weekend workshop both in person and virtually. We provide you with a printed copy if you come in person to Tulsa.

 

Communication is difficult for most couples but even more difficult for couples trying to heal serious trust issues. We provide you with help healing communication. Practice your new skills with Conversation Starters. Then deeper your intimacy through communication even further by follow the 104 questions for growing closer. Examine yourself along the way with the journal pages provided as well. All included right away when you sign up to attend the weekend couple’s workshop.

 

When you enroll in the couples workshop you receive special discounts on other programs and offers.

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98% of the couples who attend the workshop feel it greatly helped them.

When surveyed at the end of the 3 day workshop 100% of the couples said they would recommend the program. 98% said they were better because of the workshop.

 
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Past Participants

 

Miles and Jenna

“I just feel like we’re gonna start a better life today”


FINN AND STELLA

“We’ve had the best conversations we’ve ever had since coming to the workshop. After each day [of the workshop], I actually felt better, which I was shocked by…and we were going on some vacation for our anniversary and we decided that this was more important…we almost didn’t do this, but I’m so, so glad we made that choice. It was the best choice.”


Jim and Anna

“The workshop’s been great. It has brought to light a lot that I was unaware of being married for 20 years to the woman that I’ve loved. There are many things that I need to work on as well as both of us as a couple. But it has definitely shed new light on why my spouse possibly did what she did, not saying that it’s okay, but there’s the beginning of knowing why”.


Catherine and joe

“It’s been extremely helpful. Me, as the betrayer in the relationship, being able to work through the why on the other side of it has been extremely beneficial. To better understand how past trauma has brought me to this point and has caused me to take actions to get to this point. Also, with how to communicate better and to have a better emotional awareness and tools in order to get there.”


Cody and Chaisley

I think we both really recognized yeah. Learning about the negative cycle. We had heard it on your podcast and I had an idea, but once we sat down and actually filled out those questions, I truly understood what would set me off….But we came back and talked to you and you really helped us work through that. And the next day, I think a lot of the exercises we did, we were able, able to put our guard down and understand that negative cycle and how we could get out of that and just, you know, talking about things calmly.”


James and joyce

“You have to deal with your problems. You can’t just bury it in a box. We were going to get divorced...without you...I wouldn't be where I am now."

 

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Self-doubt and feeling helpless are common feelings people have when their marriage is in crisis. You’ve probably tried other things before. Our secret sauce is why I’m confident this will work for you. We have a trauma-informed approach that’s blended with the best couples research. Nobody else is doing that. We’re the leaders in merging those two fields together. And frankly, our results speak for themselves.

  • 40% of people say marriage counseling made their marriage worse, not better. There are some good marriage counselors out there. In fact, I consider myself a great one.

    The problem with almost all marriage counseling is it neglects the wound and the betrayal that has happened in the marriage. Instead, it rushes to improve our communication or connection without addressing the trauma that’s happened between the couple and the new negative identities that are created from the infidelity.

    Yes, this is a couples issue, but it’s also the biggest wound 90% of people who’ve been betrayed have experienced. That can’t be neglected or glossed over. And both partners need to know how to address it. That’s why most marriage counseling fails.

  • What you’ll discover through our program are invaluable things about yourself and tools and skills that you can use to improve any relationship that you’re in. We want to see you and your spouse be happily married, but if you end up divorcing you’ll know what you can do to save your next relationship before it starts with what we’ll show you.

  • We cover any kind of betrayal or broken trust. Limerence, emotional affairs, physical affairs are some of what is covered.

  • Our results speak for themselves. We believe we are the best at what we do. You won’t find a better marriage healing and trust-rebuilding program anywhere.

  • Money and expenses are always tight, but you won’t always have the opportunity to work on your marriage with a willing spouse. Waiting too long can cost you your marriage. Your marriage is in crisis right now and if they are willing to work on it with you right now you should jump at that chance.

  • Please call your insurance provider to see if they will. We do not bill insurance.

  • Because the first 90 days are often the hardest the program is structured as a 3 month plan. However, you will have access forever and can refer back to the content as much as you want at any time. You will also have access to the weekly group meetings for 1 year.

  • In the online content there are a few trauma exercises, at the workshop there's an optional group trauma session. You can also schedule sessions with Brad or another therapist on our staff.

  • You can discuss your situation with by calling or texting our office at 918-281-6060

  • Contact our office for information. Call 918-281-6060.

  • Sometimes people are concerned about credit because some popular financial advisers say that debt is bad. But these same financial advisers make exceptions for when a marriage is in crisis. If credit is to be leveraged for any reason NOW is the time. When your entire life (and your kids) - past, present, and future are at stake.

  • As soon as you pay you will receive immediate access to the content. It's important to check your email regularly. We send the content to the email you use to register. If you have trouble finding the content please check your spam box and/or call or text our office at 918-281-6060.

  • We know how that is. 3 days away from littles can be a lot for the family to take. That is why we provide a pre-recorded workshop inside the members area. We also allow you to split up the days over months. So you can do day 1 one month and day 2 and 3 another month or some other combination.

  • When you click “enroll” you will see the dates available and you can purchase tickets for the exact workshop you want to attend

  • Normally once a month. You have 6 months from the date of purchase to register for and attend a workshop. Workshops are offered in person and virtual.

  • No meals and lodging are not included.

  • No, the group rate is about the same as the normal rate.

  • No, you can stay wherever you would like to stay.

  • Individual therapy is usually concerned with your past.

    This addresses the past, present and future key milestones so your marriage can heal. It is specific to healing broken trust unlike individual therapy.