Your Assessment Results Below:
In your assessment you expressed several details about your relationship. You also indicated that one or both of you are not quite ready to work on the relationship at this time. That can be a major red flag that could hinder your success in this program.
Based on Your Assessment Results:
Now Is Not The Time To Join the HBT Program
HOWEVER, we don’t want to leave you empty handed. You may still benefit from the Complete Healing Broken Trust Program but after you do some preliminary work first.
All Is Not Lost!!
If you're the partner who is submitting the assessment maybe it's safe to assume that you are the one interested in working on the relationship, is that true?
We first must understand why one partner isn't interested in working on the relationship right now.
Here are some reasons for why this is sometimes the case. Can you relate to any of these?
A partner is still stuck in the affair.
A partner has fallen deep into toxic shame and doesn't feel worthy.
A partner is just too tired and discouraged and no longer interested in working on the relationship.
Because the Complete Healing Broken Trust Program relies on both partners to participate we must first re-engage the partner who is not interested in working on the relationship.
Here are some options for you:
Still Stuck In The Affair?
If one partner is still stuck in the affair it's possible they are stuck in limerence. You can help them break free with our Stop My Divorce, Ruin Their Affair Program.
In it we walk you through proven ways to re-engage your partner and help them to choose you again. It's not easy but very effective.
A Partner Has Fallen Into Toxic Shame?
In this scenario it is often helpful to have a conversation about working on the relationship. Many times couples are in such a negative cycle they struggle to have any kind of conversation much less a difficult one like talking about getting help. In this case we have a helpful tool that you should be receiving via email in the next few minutes. Read it and follow the advice. If you have any questions please reach out to our office at 918-281-6060 via text or by calling.
A Partner Is Just Too Tired and Discouraged?
If you find yourself in this spot consider trying the advice in the document attached. If that isn't quite what you need then consider scheduling a 1-on-1 appointment with one of us. Just choose the 90 minute couple option and if your spouse doesn't show up then you can just use the time for yourself.
Another Solution:
Sometimes working on yourself is the way to see a breakthrough. Dealing with the pain of betrayal for yourself could make all the difference. You may choose to schedule trauma counseling below.
If you don't feel like any of these options fit your situation, you feel the results are not correct, or you would like to discuss your assessment results then please reply to the email we sent you, call, or text us at 918-281-6060. We're happy to discuss your situation with you.
Once your spouse is on board with working on the relationship we can try again for the Complete Healing Broken Trust Program.