““You have you deal with your problems. You can’t bury them in a box and let God take care of them. 14 months ago, if we had found you, we wouldn’t be where I am now””
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We were desperately trying to survive an affair and even moved to another state in an attempt to end the affair and start over. When the communication with the other woman continued even after we moved, we decided to do the HBT Program.
What we found was safety with each other that allowed us to process through the trauma we had experienced. The program helped us get to the root of the affair and helped us process through what was on our minds and hearts each week. He helped us dig deeper than just the events or the previous 9 months. He helped us see triggers and situations that if left unresolved were like smoldering coals waiting to ignite into a wild fire.
As we became transparent and vulnerable, we began to see each other in a new light and healing began. It was mind boggling how many things we didn't know or understand about each other even after nine years of marriage. There was a point, about midway through our time in the program, in which we felt like we had met each other for the first time, only better.
One thing is both true and very surprising to us, from the very beginning, we have never regretted joining the program. We always leave our time with Brad encouraged by the idea of better things ahead.
It wasn't a quick fix but instead it was an open process that made us realize it was much better than any quick fix. Over time, we have developed tools we now use every day in our marriage.
Brad's instruction and the tools he has given us, have brought us to a place of emotional intimacy we never had in the first nine years of our marriage.
To say that Brad is an expert in marriage and emotional therapy isn't a marketing gimmick, it is the absolute truth.
We had heart change that wouldn't have come without his gentle yet effective direction and counseling. One of the first things we realized is that Brad has a calling to help marriages and he takes his calling very seriously.
From the beginning he made us feel like our marriage was the most important marriage he had ever worked with. The time and money required is more than worth it and has proven to be the best time and money we have ever spent.
We plan to continue because we know our marriage is worth the investment! We also know that our marriage is and will be a priority from now on.
Before Brad, we were on a path for history to repeat itself again and again or worse yet, our marriage completely crumbling.
After the HBT program, we are not perfect but we have a new connection that brings us a hope daily for a better marriage and a long future together.
Our perspective has changed and we firmly believe that every marriage needs this program to speak into it their relationship and encourage growth. We can't say enough positive things about our experience.”
- Anthony and Stephanie
“We came in blind and didn’t have any idea what to expect. What we found is incredible. ”
