I’ve worked with couples on the brink of collapse—some literally sitting in separate chairs in my office, not making eye contact, hands clenched, one foot already halfway out the door.

And I’ve seen what happens when someone says, “I’ve ended the affair,” but hasn’t really ended it.

The truth?

Most people don’t need help deciding whether they should end an affair.

They need help staying done.

That’s the part no one talks about.