I Just Found Out My Spouse Cheated, Now What?
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If you just found out your spouse cheated on you, you may be wondering what do I do? If, so, if you're asking a question like that, I'm really sorry that you're in that place. That is a terrible place to be. I've had clients in the past, tell me they would rather go back to Iraq again, get shot at I've had clients tell me that they would rather find out they have cancer again and find out their spouse had cheated on them. And so you, so I'm really sorry you're in that spot. It's a very devastating place to be in. It is a nightmare scenario. So I'm really sorry if you're in the spot where your spouse is cheating on you, and you're wondering, what should I do? And I want to give you three pieces of advice…
How Do I Talk To My Spouse About Getting Help For Our Relationship?
What do you do when your house is on fire?
Do you sit around and hope that the flames go out on their own? No! Of course not!
You probably would call 911 and run into the flames to save everything you can of the life you’ve known and care about.
You would especially run into the flames if the one you love is trapped inside.
Dealing with infidelity in your marriage is very similar. And yet so many people sit on their hands and hide, hoping that everything around them somehow resolves on its own.
But this is silly, right? Massive destruction doesn’t disappear on its own…