Marriage

Avoid Infidelity: Risks of Opposite-Sex Friendships

Personally, I don’t think so. I’m friendly and courteous, but I don’t maintain close friendships with the opposite sex because I don’t see a need for it. In my opinion, the risks outweigh the benefits. 

This dilemma reminds me of the classic debate from When Harry Met Sally, where Harry argues that men and women can’t truly be friends because one person always wants more. Research supports this idea—studies show that the number one trait people seek in a romantic partner isn’t looks or wealth, but kindness.

Setting Boundaries to Prevent Emotional Affairs

In today's hyper-connected world, emotional affairs have become an increasing concern in relationships.

Unlike physical infidelity, emotional affairs often develop gradually, blurring the lines between friendship and betrayal.

Many people don’t intend to cheat, yet they find themselves drawn into intimate emotional connections outside of their primary relationship.

The key to preventing this is setting clear and healthy boundaries—not out of restriction, but to safeguard love and trust.