Affair Repair

How to Heal from an Affair and Transform Your Life In 3 Steps

There’s a unique kind of gut punch that comes with discovering infidelity in your marriage.

It doesn’t just knock the wind out of you; it rewrites the entire playbook mid-game, and you’re the last to know.

One moment, you’re living inside a shared reality, one built on trust, love, and an unspoken agreement that you’re both playing by the same rules.

The next, you’re standing on the sidelines of a game you didn’t even realize was being played.

You look back at your own memories, searching for the moment the script flipped, for the clue you missed, and the worst part? You’re not even sure if anything that came before was real. 

Why did you cheat on me? It’s one of the few questions that matter

That is the number one question I hear most often repeated from the person who has been betrayed. Sometimes the wayward partner is even asking that question., “Why did I cheat?”

I have a very distinct memory the first time I saw a couple in this situation because it really stands out in my mind. The husband had been betrayed and he was ready to file divorce papers. He was animated and upset, he had no peace. He wasn’t sleeping, not really eating, and had lost all joy in life.

To make matters worse…