Mind of the Betrayer

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Why Does My Partner Freeze, Shut Down, or Say the Wrong Thing After Infidelity?

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Why Does My Partner Freeze, Shut Down, or Say the Wrong Thing After Infidelity?

Understanding Emotional Shutdown After an Affair: Why does my partner freeze, shut down, or say the wrong thing when I’m falling apart?

In this episode we break down the hidden pain points many unfaithful partners carry after an affair—not to excuse what happened, but to name what’s going on inside. The shame that says, “I am bad,” the fear of losing everything, and the panic of not knowing how to respond when your spouse is devastated.

We also cover the feeling that nothing you do is ever enough, the heavy weight of guilt and moral injury, and why many people withdraw or avoid because the conversations feel unbearable.

Why Unfaithful Partners Shut Down After an Affair

We have 11 different things to cover today.

19 Things the Unfaithful Partner Wished the Betrayed Knew

19 Things the Unfaithful Partner Wished the Betrayed Knew

There are mainly two groups within the unfaithful partners that we will consider in this article. The motivated unfaithful partner and the unmotivated unfaithful partner.

The unmotivated partner may not always know what to do. They may feel helpless that things can’t really change.

The motivated partner may be afraid of losing their spouse. They too aren’t always sure of what to do.

In either case the list below will shed some light on what goes on in the mind of the one who had an affair. This would also apply to anyone who has had multiple affairs as well.

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