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When You're Not Married And Working Through Infidelity - Catherine and Joe

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When You're Not Married And Working Through Infidelity - Catherine and Joe

It's been extremely helpful. Me, as the betrayer in the relationship, being able to work through the why on the other side of it has been extremely beneficial to better understand how past trauma has brought me to this point and has caused me to take actions to get us to this point, along with how to communicate better and to have a better emotional awareness and tools in order to get there. Because I think with better emotional awareness, both personally and in our relationship, we can talk through these things without getting to the point that we had in the past. So it's been life-changing, and especially for our relationship extremely beneficial…

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How To Heal Even When The Hurt Spouse Is Checked Out - Jim and Anna

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How To Heal Even When The Hurt Spouse Is Checked Out - Jim and Anna

The workshop's been great. It has brought to light a lot that I was unaware of even being married for 20 years to the woman that I've loved. There are many things that I need to work on as well as both of us as a couple. But it has definitely shed new light on why my spouse possibly did what she did,

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How To Have The Best Conversations And Still Deal With Triggers After Betrayal - Finn and Stella

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How To Have The Best Conversations And Still Deal With Triggers After Betrayal - Finn and Stella

“After every day [of the workshop] I actually felt better. Which I was shocked by.”

“By the end of it I felt like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. We’ve had the best conversations I think we’ve ever had”

“I had so many breakthrough”

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Healing Success Formula

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One of the coolest parts about our HBT Program is the weekly group meetings.

On Monday, 13 couples met to talk about where they are on their healing journey and to encourage and support each other.

So many neat and wonderful things happen in these meetings.

The group discussed pages from our HBT workshop book that everyone gets when they join and someone came up with the coolest formula to describe what brings about healing…

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When You Feel Stuck After The Affair - Cody and Chaisley’s Story

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“I'm afraid of what he'll say. I'm afraid to hurt him, but I just can't have that fear anymore. You know, I know that that's what he needs to heal and I heard it over and over on your podcast and it's, I just didn't quite understand it like, but now I do. And I think we're doing pretty good today. I would say, yes, we, you know, we still have work to do. And, but I feel like we're in a place where we're, it's a little more encouraging. We're not feeling as defeated…

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I Just Found Out My Spouse Cheated, Now What?

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I Just Found Out My Spouse Cheated, Now What?

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If you just found out your spouse cheated on you, you may be wondering what do I do? If, so, if you're asking a question like that, I'm really sorry that you're in that place. That is a terrible place to be. I've had clients in the past, tell me they would rather go back to Iraq again, get shot at I've had clients tell me that they would rather find out they have cancer again and find out their spouse had cheated on them. And so you, so I'm really sorry you're in that spot. It's a very devastating place to be in. It is a nightmare scenario. So I'm really sorry if you're in the spot where your spouse is cheating on you, and you're wondering, what should I do? And I want to give you three pieces of advice…

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Why did you cheat on me? It’s one of the few questions that matter

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That is the number one question I hear most often repeated from the person who has been betrayed. Sometimes the wayward partner is even asking that question., “Why did I cheat?”

I have a very distinct memory the first time I saw a couple in this situation because it really stands out in my mind. The husband had been betrayed and he was ready to file divorce papers. He was animated and upset, he had no peace. He wasn’t sleeping, not really eating, and had lost all joy in life.

To make matters worse…

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